This week, my friend Stephanie who lives in California told me that her daughter Ella, had been to the doctor repeatedly for a week-long fever. Finally this week after some blood tests, the doctors were able to diagnose sweet, little Ella with mono. I remember a good friend in elementary school had mono and it was awful. She had no strength and missed several weeks of school. When Stephanie told me that Ella had to have blood drawn from her tiny arms, I was sad. Personally, childbirth is almost as bad as the blood draw and IV setting process. I hate it, and I am a wimp. So knowing Ella was being picked and prodded made me sad.
So I came home and told Taylor the news...that her friend Ella was very sick and probably could use some cheering up. I've sent a few care packages in my past, but I've never taught Taylor how to do it. This was a great lesson on empathy. So after Taylor and I decided on a care package, we headed to Target to get our supplies.
Of course my kids wanted "stuff" too, but I was trying hard to not make this about them and told them we were only here to get stuff for Ella. Honestly, I did pick most of the stuff out myself, but Taylor had a say too. She really helped me while I managed the boys.
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{our loot from Target} |
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{Taylor decorating the mailing envelope with stickers} |
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{after we stuffed and sealed the package, I took a photo of Taylor and her very first care package} |
So this week I mailed off the care package and knew Ella would be receiving it today. All day I was reminding Taylor that today was the day to surprise Ella. I told her I had asked Stephanie to take some photos and email them to me to show Taylor. As soon as I saw the smile on Ella's face and pointed that out to Taylor, we both smiled together. This was such a unique way to teach my children, mainly Taylor, about empathy. And the results were successful in brightening a sick little girl's day!